Is there something as "Ideal Man/Woman"? I came to this question because when I'm growing up, I used to read Princesses Story book which at the end of their story they found their knight in shinning armor and live happily ever after. =)
But in reality, of course, it's not true. Like for instance, you get attracted to a guy because of his squeaky clean look. But mostly of this ideal looking guys are not fun to have relationship with, most of this guys end up being single. Sometimes it's better to leave your ideal prince charming as he is and never have relationship with him nor know his background or personal matters, because I'm sure he will end up to be not your "Ideal Man/Woman".